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My Daughter Dresses Inappropriately!

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Ahh, boundaries.  It seems to be a constant problem for parents and daughters.  We all go through that stage.  In this video I talk about how to talk to your daughter about her clothing and style choices and how to present herself to boys.  Here is an overview:

1) Pick your battles

2) If you tell her no, she will do it worse

3) Let them try on their identity and experiment a little

4) Teach them how to be pretty–not slutty

5) Find out how her friends dress, is this an identity thing or a peer pressure thing?

6) Try to incorporate fashion–in a good way.


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  • 1 Sunday Reading // Apr 20, 2008 at 12:15 pm

    [...] Vanessa Van Petten tells us what to do if our teen wants to wear clothes we don’t find appropriate. [...]

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